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Why I Switched Back to a Paper Planner: My Experience

Image shows an open planner with sections blocked out for specific needs such as Homeschool, Lunch, Dinner, To Do

I am totally a planner girlie. I love calendars, love planners, love the cute pens and highlighters and stickers to go with them and keep myself organized. I have been this way since my school-days. I would always have a planner to write down everything for all of classes, due dates, tests, reminders, etc. When I finished school and started in the corporate world I traded in my planner for the calendar app on my phone and outlook on the computer. I didn’t have as many things to keep track of aside from meetings or scheduled calls. For many years this is all I needed, and it worked for me during that season of my life.

But now I work full time, am a mother, a homeschool teacher, and homemaker, all wrapped up and rolled into one. There was a time where I was also back in school as well, and my husband picked up most of my slack so that I could finish and get my bachelors degree. Now we have traded places and I am happy to be able to do the same for him, that he did for me. Now he works full time and goes to school, along with his many other responsibilities. So our responsibilities have shifted and suffice it to say the current season of our life, is busy. Very busy in fact, and the little phone calendar app just wasn’t cutting it for me anymore. Yes I still use it, especially for keeping track of appointments, schedules, important dates, etc. But for day to day organizing it just wasn’t working.

Sure there are hundreds of planner/organizing apps to help people get organized. I have even tried several of them, but they just weren’t doing it for me. I’d stick to them for a bit and then things would fall to the wayside. But you know what did do it for me? A good old fashioned paper and pen planner. I started using them again last year and immediately remembered how much I loved using planners to help me stay organized and on top of things.

Image shows a closed 2026 planner by ChristianPlanner with pens resting on top.

Not all planners are created equally though. What some people find useful others do not. I tried several different planners, printable ones as well physical copies. I even tried designing my own, but that just made me feel even busier with everything I already have to do. Some planners were specific to the task, such as homeschool specific planners, while others more broad. But ultimately my favorite planner ended up being the one my sister gifted me from ChristianPlanner. I loved that planner so much that she gifted me another one this year as well. With this weekly planner I am able to block out the days as needed. I have my homeschool sections where I can note down the lessons for the day, to do list, meal planning, appointments, and so on, and so forth. I can make it cute with my different colored pens and highlighters (because that’s the kind of girl I am) but ultimately the purpose is the same. To organize and keep track of what needs to get done.

I think the significance of having a physical planner that has helped me the most, is the simple act of writing things down. Me personally, I am a tactile learner. I need to touch and feel in order to learn, I could type all I want on a phone or tablet but it doesn’t help me to simply touch a smooth screen. It is the act of physically writing things down on paper, that helps me actually remember them. I remember when I was in college, I didn’t study in the traditional sense of quizzing myself or using flash cards. My professors would often talk so fast that my notes would be messy and sloppy as I tried to keep up with them. So then I would go home and re-write them again, so that I could make them look nicer, more organized, and of course color-coded. I even had different colored notebook paper for each class. But it was that simple act of rewriting my notes that would help me remember what needed to be remembered.

Bringing that same concept back to planner I see now why all of those organizing apps and todo lists on my phones wouldn’t work. I wouldn’t remember what I needed to do unless I checked my phone a hundred times to remind myself. But by writing it down in the planner, yes I do still check it occasionally to make sure I didn’t miss anything, but simply writing them down already helps keep it in my mind, I can close my eyes and picture the todo section of my planner and what I wrote there. I mean this concept isn’t a foreign one. It goes back even to Biblical times if you truly stop to think about it. God told Moses to write down the commandments, he told kings to write down copies of that law so that they would remember. He told prophets to write down their prophecies so they could be remembered and preserved. Throughout time and history the act of writing things down has been used to remember and pass things down.

So, my advice today. If you find yourself struggling to keep track of your to-do lists, or figuring out what needs to happen throughout your days. Ditch the phone apps and try getting an actual planner to keep track. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy or expensive. I’ve even seen small pocket planners at the dollar store. Give it a try, and I hope that it helps you, as much as it has helped me.

Life

Two Wolves Story: Choose Positivity for 2026

Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year!

Congratulations, we survived the holidays! If you are like me, you are probably still trying to get life back in order or maybe salvage what remains of your day-to-day routine. Or, like me, you may be learning that some parts of your routine just weren’t working anymore and you need to change things to adapt with the season. New year, new changes, or as some say new resolutions.

I know we are already a month into 2026, which honestly is hard enough to believe. But that doesn’t mean its too late to start thinking about what you want this year to be. Where do you want your focus to be? Do you want to start your typical health goals? Focus more on your career or family? Are you looking out into the world or within? Maybe these questions are too philosophical and to be honest I don’t even know why I am asking them; this is not what I was intending to write about today. But here I am.

The reality is that these are questions that everyone typically thinks about at the end/beginning of a new year. I know I definitely have. I have a journal and vision board of different things I want to do and accomplish this year. I did the same thing last year, and I will do the same thing next year. It is common practice to make new years resolutions. Lists of goals you wish to achieve or maybe changes you want to make. Even within the corporate world, the start of a new year typically come with big changes. Re-structuring happens, some get promoted, others get laid off. New years bring new changes.

For me it makes me think about the story about the two wolves. I’ve only heard this story through word of mouth so I don’t know where it originated from and I don’t take credit for it, but essentially a grandfather tells his grandson a story about two wolves fighting. One wolf represents good things, love, compassion, joy, kindness, etc. The other wolf represents the bad things: evil, lies, greed, etc. As the wolves are fighting the grandson asks his grandfather, ‘which wolf will win?” and the grandfather responds with “whichever wolf you feed.” But its not just characteristics that this applies to, but everything within your life. What you speak. What you focus on. If you speak negative words and focus on the negative, then the negative will win. You will be miserable and you will think about all the ‘bad things that happen to you’. Whereas if you focus on the positive, speak positive, likewise you will see a shift happen. The negative things will start to have less of an impact on you and you will have a more positive filled life. Like attracts like as they say.

Which wolf are you going to feed this year?

Life

Weighted Stuffed Animals: Relief During Flu Season

Flu season is tough, especially for families. When one of you gets sick, it’s like a tidal wave through the rest of the family. No matter how careful you are it seems that you can only truly rest once the last of you gets the bug. We recently got hit with a nasty stomach virus. Sick in bed for a few days. My youngest seemed to have had the easiest of it, most of the symptoms gone after 24 hours, but even she took a few days to get back to her usual chipper self. The rest of us had a few days of symptoms that just made us all miserable. My oldest is probably the absolute hardest when she’s sick. Very emotional, and very stubborn. Trying to get her to take anything is like trying to pull her teeth out. In the case of a stomach virus as you likely know, there is not much that you can do aside from wait for it to pass. You can’t really eat so the only things you really can do is rest, and hydrate. For my oldest our biggest concern was was electrolytes. We got the typical recommendations to help replenish her electrolytes and stay hydrated. The Pedialyte popsicles, Gatorade, I even found applesauce pouches with electrolytes mixed in and yet nothing. We could not get her to take any of them outside of a tiny sip. What did she actually agree to take? Pickle juice and plain chicken broth. I’ve never met another 7 year old so in love with pickles and pickle juice but hey, it’s better than nothing I guess.

There is something we did find that helped a surprising amount during these past few weeks. On our recent trip to the Simply Natural Creamery dairy farm, we purchased some Warmies from the gift shop there. If you don’t know what these are they are weighted stuffed animals with lavender inside that you can actually warm in the microwave for a certain amount of time. The warmth and lavender help to relax you and can help with stomach aches/cramps. I did not expect them to help so much when we all had the chills. Even with piles of blankets on we were not able to stop shaking from the chills but as soon as we warmed these stuffed animals up, it was as if the warmth seeped deep into our bones. This was the only thing that seemed to help both of my daughters relax enough to sleep and get much needed rest. To be honest I even used one myself when I was sick and can speak from personal experience that they really do help.

I realize now this post is sounding more like an ad, I promise I am not sponsored by Warmies. I am just a relieved mother who has finally gotten through 2 weeks of back to back sickness where Warmies were the biggest help to get through it all and figured I’d share my experience for anyone else who may be getting hit by flu season.